+Tyler F
Tyler,
Thanks for sharing those insights. That really helps to clarify things in my mind.
For fun, I dug up a recent scorecard (attached) along with a short anecdote of my own "non-elite" golf round which completely backs up your point about hating to lose actually fueling better performance. In this case, I recall 4 birdies which each had an element of "hating to lose":
Birdie #1 - being heckled relentlessly by my buddies, trying to distract me standing over a 15 ft putt. i learned heckling changes my mental state from "winning" and being nervous about making birdie, to simply "don't lose / give in / show weakness to these (guys)"
Birdie #2 - more heckling by buddies on a 20 ft putt, because I had a great read from another player's putt. so the mental state was "don't give in"
Birdie #3 - was losing money after a string of bogeys & doubles; couldn't figure out how to "bounce back" with better swing thoughts, so doubled the bet to try and get myself back to even money. birdie got me back to "not losing" money.
Birdie #4 - 18th hole is our beer hole; net loser buys a pitcher of beer, so I did not want to lose the hole
I'm just using birdies because I tend to have clearer memories of them vs. par saves. Your video explanation has really got me thinking about how to structure betting games with buddies to bring out peak performance - without losing too much money. =)
I definitely think you're onto something with the "hating to lose" mindset.